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Top 5 finalist of "Mrs.India WorldWide 2012"
Winner: Mrs. Beautiful Hair 2012 |
ESHA TEWARI
writes
The perfect Mrs. –
A reality or a myth?
"Is there a perfect Mrs”?
Hey Friends,
I was requested to share my
views on "HOW TO BE A PERFECT Mrs."?
But I would say why just try
to be a ‘PERFECT Mrs.’ and not a ‘PERFECT GIRL/WOMAN? I strongly believe
if you try hard enough, nobody can stop you from being ‘PERFECT’ in your own
life.
NOBODY can stop you -
·
From
maintaining your personality in terms of beauty, weight, looks etc.
·
From
doing what you want to do in your life.
·
From
taking good care of yourself. Yes, why not? If you can take care of others in the
family, you can take care of you as well,
BUT you have to do it. Only
you.
So, here are few things in
my opinion what makes a girl PERFECT, doesn't really matter if you’re married
or not.
We are talking about ‘PERFECTION’ in this article, but
in reality NOBODY in this world is PERFECT. There is no dictionary definition
of a perfect woman. If you strive to become one, then the one thing you will definitely
achieve is stress. The only way to be PERFECT in your own life is
"Be Happy". :-)
- I
have observed that girls at times take it too easy post-marriage. They act
a bit casual on their beauty regime, with their weight, skin care,
hair care, learning’s, even with their hobbies, passion etc. (CIB says: Guilty!) I would
say or rather request you girls, "DON’T change yourself".
Believe in yourself, in your beauty, your knowledge, your passion and
you can do wonders in your life.
- Exercise
daily, take care of your beauty, read & harvest
your knowledge, follow your dreams, take your hobbies, your
passion seriously irrespective of the marital status. Remember,
you’re doing all this for you and NOT for anybody else.
- Tell yourself, you are beautiful & do your
best and always remember you can't make everyone happy in this
world. There will always be some people who will like you & others who
won't but it’s their problem, not your's.
- Look beautiful; take care of your skin by
regular skin care- cleansing, scrubbing, toning
& moisturizing.
- Take
care of your Hair: 3 steps
are always important as a daily exercise: Shampoo+Conditioner+serum. Don’t
brush your hair when it is sopping wet, it’s more likely to break and
result in split ends.
- Wear
dresses that suit your personality & style which you can only define
for yourself. Wear colors that suits you.
- Marriage
is like a merger of two companies where employees have different cultures but
they work together towards a common goal by maintaining good values &
relationship and this can only be done by setting correct expectation.
Understand people, their culture & let people understand you as well.
Don't forget, “The
ONLY way to be a PERFECT girl or women in your own life is to ‘Be Happy’. A smile
on your face makes you look the best.” :-)
Follow your heart &
wear your smile daily. :-)
Signing out for now,
Esha
Twitter: @eshatewari
